SIGNS YOUR MARRIAGE MIGHT BE IN BIG TROUBLE

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Troubles in marriage don’t just happen overnight, they build gradually and if we don’t do anything about it quick, it could end up ruining our marriages. If you love your marriage and you hope to make it work, it’s important you save your marriage now before it gets worse.
Below are signs your marriage might be in big trouble
1. YOU ARE CONSIDERING CHEATING ON YOUR SPOUSE
There are so many reasons people give for having an affair but the truth is having an affair signals trouble in your marriage. Whether it’s you just wanting to be appreciated or you are not getting enough sex, cheating on your partner has never solved any marital unhappiness and it will never solve it.
2. YOU NOW TAKE EACH OTHER FOR GRANTED
When you begin to take your partner for granted, it signals trouble in your marriage. When you value something, you give it all the attention and care it deserves right? Same applies to your marriage. If suddenly you stop giving your marriage your all, then your marriage might just be in big trouble.
3. YOU CAN’T REMEMBER THE LAST TIME YOU AND YOUR PARTNER LAUGHED TOGETHER
When was the last time you laughed uncontrollably when in a conversation with your partner? If you can’t remember, then that signals trouble in your marriage. When the fun in a marriage dies and it suddenly becomes boring, your marriage could be headed downhill.
4. YOU ARE NO LONGER TEAMMATES
When you no longer do things together as a couple, it could signal trouble in your marriage. When you now do things without consulting your partner, you no longer need their opinion on any subject, it signals big trouble in your marriage.
5. NOTHING YOU DO IS RIGHT
It’s now so difficult to please your partner and everything you do just seems to be wrong, it could signal trouble in your marriage. Your partner also then starts criticising everything you do and suddenly you become intimidated because you just don’t know how to please your partner any more. All these signs could signal trouble in your marriage.
6. YOU DON’T BORDER LISTENING TO EACH OTHER ANY MORE
When was the last time you listened to your partner? When we stop listening to our partners, our marriages could be headed downhill because the ability to truly listen is key to keeping a marriage thriving.
7. YOU ARGUE ABOUT THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN
While it’s totally impossible to rule out conflicts in marriage, arguing over the same thing continuously spells doom for every relationship including marriage. When you argue over the same thing continuously, your marriage will become very unpleasant and you will begin to focus on the negatives of your relationship.
8. SEX BECOMES A THING OF THE PAST
When you can’t even remember the last time you were intimate with your partner, your marriage could be in big trouble. Sex isn’t just about procreation, it also helps to bond.

If you notice these signs in your marriage, it’s really important you get help now before things start going downhill.

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